out of pocket

/ˌaʊt əv ˈpɑkət/
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Away from the usual source of money, contact, or acceptable behavior.

Examples

  • I'll be out of pocket during the flight, but I'll reply tonight.
  • Many teachers buy classroom supplies out of pocket.
  • He apologized because his comment was out of pocket and hurtful.
  • Customers should not be out of pocket because of the error.
  • Her reply was blunt, but it was not out of pocket.

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personally funded
with one's own money
at one's own expense
at a loss
unreachable
unavailable
inappropriate
off the grid
out of line
worse off

Meanings

Left with a financial loss

finance
informal
Having less money than before because of a cost, mistake, or failed deal, especially in British English.

Examples

  • The cancelled booking left us £300 out of pocket.
  • Customers should not be out of pocket because of the error.
  • After paying all those fees, how far out of pocket were you?
  • I sold the tickets at face value, so I was not out of pocket.
  • The failed deal left several small investors badly out of pocket.

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Temporarily unreachable

communication
informal
Temporarily unavailable or unable to answer messages and calls, an informal use found mainly in the United States.

Examples

  • I'll be out of pocket during the flight, but I'll reply tonight.
  • The project lead was out of pocket all morning.
  • Will you be out of pocket while you are at the conference?
  • I wasn't ignoring your messages, I was out of pocket for a few hours.
  • She warned the team that she would be out of pocket after lunch.

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Wildly inappropriate

social
slang
So rude, extreme, or unexpected that it crosses a social boundary, a slang use from African American English that is now common online.

Examples

  • That joke about her family was completely out of pocket.
  • He apologized because his comment was out of pocket and hurtful.
  • Was I out of pocket for saying that in the group chat?
  • Her reply was blunt, but it was not out of pocket.
  • Everyone went quiet after his out-of-pocket remark crossed the line.

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Etymology

Built from out of and pocket, the place where personal money was traditionally carried. The financial use is recorded from 1679, and the adjective for a direct cash expense from 1885. The sense of being wildly inappropriate comes from mid-20th-century African American English.

FAQ

What does out of pocket mean?

It can mean paying personally, losing money, being unreachable, or acting wildly inappropriately. Context and region decide the sense.

What does out of pocket mean in slang?

It describes behavior or speech that is shockingly inappropriate, extreme, or out of line.

Can out of pocket mean unavailable?

Yes. In informal American use, it can mean temporarily unreachable by phone or message.

What are out-of-pocket expenses?

They are costs paid with personal money instead of being covered by an employer, insurer, or another source.

Why does out of pocket mean a financial loss in Britain?

The older financial expression describes having less money after a cost or failed transaction, the opposite of being in pocket.

Where did the slang sense of out of pocket come from?

Merriam-Webster traces the inappropriate-behavior sense to African American English in the mid-20th century.

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