Use embarrassing for the thing or situation that causes the feeling. Use embarrassed for the person who feels it.
Use embarrassing for the thing or situation that causes the feeling. Use embarrassed for the person who feels it.
| Incorrect | Correct |
| I felt embarrassing after the mistake. | I felt embarrassed after the mistake. |
| It was an embarrassed mistake. | It was an embarrassing mistake. |
| She was embarrassing by the question. | She was embarrassed by the question. |
| That situation was very embarrass. | That situation was very embarrassing. |
Use embarrassing when a public fact, failure, or disclosure harms someone's image, often with for or to before the affected person or group.
| Incorrect | Correct |
| The report was embarrassed for the company. | The report was embarrassing for the company. |
| The loss embarrassed for the club. | The loss was embarrassing for the club. |
| The audit put the minister on an embarrassing position. | The audit put the minister in an embarrassing position. |
| The scandal was embarrassing the government. | The scandal was embarrassing for the government. |
Use embarrassing for the cause of shame or public discredit. Use embarrassed for the person who feels it.
Embarrassed is used for the feeling person, so I felt embarrassing should be I felt embarrassed.
Formed from embarrass + -ing. Embarrass entered English in the 1600s from French embarrasser, literally meaning to block, and later developed the sense of making someone feel awkward.
What does embarrassing mean?
Embarrassing describes something that causes shame, awkwardness, self-consciousness, or public discredit.
What is the difference between embarrassing and embarrassed?
Embarrassing describes the cause, while embarrassed describes the person who feels ashamed or awkward.
Can embarrassing describe a public failure?
Yes. A report, scandal, defeat, or mistake can be embarrassing if it makes a person or institution look foolish or dishonest.
Is embarrassing the same as awkward?
They overlap, but awkward can mean clumsy or uncomfortable without the stronger feeling of shame carried by embarrassing.
How is embarrassing spelled?
Embarrassing has two r's and two s's. The common misspelling embarassing drops one r.