help yourself

/ˌhɛlp jərˈsɛlf/
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An invitation to take or use whatever is available without asking again.

Examples

  • May I take a biscuit? Of course, help yourself.
  • Please help yourselves to coffee while you wait.
  • Help yourself to a clean towel from the cupboard.
  • There is more soup in the kitchen, so help yourself.
  • The reference files are on the shared drive, so help yourself.

Similar words

take what you like
serve yourself
feel free

Meanings

Take or use freely

hospitality
neutral
Said to give someone permission to take food, choose an available item, or use a resource without asking again.

Examples

  • There is more soup in the kitchen, so help yourself.
  • Help yourself to a clean towel from the cupboard.
  • May I take a biscuit? Of course, help yourself.
  • The reference files are on the shared drive, so help yourself.
  • Please help yourselves to coffee while you wait.

Similar words

Etymology

A polite imperative built from help in its older sense of serving or providing and the reflexive pronoun yourself. The plural form is help yourselves.

FAQ

What does help yourself mean?

It gives someone permission to take or use something that is available.

Why does help yourself often use to?

The pattern help yourself to names what may be taken, as in “help yourself to some cake”.

What is the plural of help yourself?

When speaking to more than one person, say help yourselves.

Is help yourself polite?

Yes. It is a friendly invitation, although tone and context determine how warm it sounds.

Can help yourself refer to something other than food?

Yes. It can give permission to take an object or use an available resource.

Does help yourself mean “assist yourself”?

Not in this fixed invitation. It means to take or use something freely.

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